Saturday, January 14, 2017

Wear Your Helmet


You can see that this photo is not from Bolivia. However, this is a normal scene. I tried taking photos, but they are always too blurry to use. In Bolivia, there is a helmet law. The driver, not passengers, but the driver is required by law to wear a helmet. 75% of them drive with no helmet. Another 24% carry their helmet on their wrist. If a policeman pulls them over, they put it on. The final 1% actually wear a helmet. 

I drove a moto for three years here. I sold it last year. I always wore a helmet. I had four more helmets because everyone on the bike had to have a helmet, and sometimes there would be three or four of us on it. After all, it is Bolivia. :)

Why is it that people do not wear helmets? 

When I was working on a night shift in Texas, one day on the way to work I passed an accident that had recently happened. The motorcycle rider was dead at the scene. He would have probably survived with a helmet. That same day, on the way home from work at 3 in the morning, I was the first to arrive at a scene where a rider slid on water in the street from a sprinkler system. It was not pretty. He too, was dead from head injuries. I believe a helmet would have saved his life, based upon what I saw. 

In September of 2015, I was driving down Rte. 7 in Loudoun County, Virginia. A group of bikers passed me, all riding double. A few minutes later I rounded a curve and two bikes were in the road, one still sliding. I quickly stopped and went to render aide. There were a couple of broken bones, and one person obviously had a concussion. That was it. They had been going 60mph and hit a slick spot in the road. Every one of them had on a helmet.  

We can read statistic after statistic about how dangerous it is to ride a bike without a helmet. Yet, people continue to do it. You know why? Forget all of the reasons that are listed, the bottom line is this: We do not believe that we will have an accident. It will not happen to us. 

You see, those bad things happen to other people. I am immune. I am immortal. I am safe. 

We know that is silly, yet we believe it when it is us. That is because we do the same thing when it comes to protecting ourselves from temptation and sin.

What do you actively do to protect yourself from temptation? 

We have a saying in my house that goes like this, "The best way to prevent sin is to prevent temptation." No one would ever sin if they were not tempted to do so. Temptation is the lure that leads us to sin. 

So, what do you do to protect yourself from temptation? Chances are, you have no answer to this question. In other words, you are riding through life helmet less because it will not happen to you

Even though the Bible says, Therefore let him who thinks he stands take heed that he does not fall.(1 Corinthians 10:12) Even thought there are many verses that say things like, "Do not be deceived", "Do not deceive yourselves", "Watch and pray", "Be on guard", etc.  Those verses do not apply to us. We do not need a helmet.

Or do we?

There are two surefire ways to avoid sin. The first is to avoid the opportunity. For example, I will never commit adultery on my wife if I am never alone with another woman. The second way to avoid sin is avoid temptation. 

Are you proactively seeking to avoid situations that could result in sin?

Are you proactively seeking to avoid temptation? 

What do you do to protect yourself from coveting, envy, and jealousy? Ride without helmet?

What do you do to protect yourself from bitterness and anger? Ride without a helmet?

What do you do to protect yourself from gluttony? Ride without a helmet?

What do you do to protect yourself from lustful thoughts? Ride without a helmet?

What do you do to protect yourself from _________________?

God told us to put on the armor of God for a reason. Protect our thoughts, our heart, and where we go.

Put on your helmet...it really could happen to you. 

Just a thought.


Leia Mais…

Monday, January 9, 2017

Where Is Home?



We live two lives. 
We are not hypocritical. 
We are not phonies. 

We actually do live two lives. It is difficult to explain, and hard to adjust to the reality of it. We are not different people. We just have different lives. 

When we sold our house in Virginia, upon the advice of good friends and the book "Third Culture Kids", we purchased a home in Florida. The Florida house is for renting out and to have a place when we return to the States. It is a weekly vacation rental property for people who are taking a holiday in Orlando. The house is beautiful. Since it is in Florida and a vacation rental, it has a swimming pool and a hot tub. It is in a landscaped community with water fountains and a private pond. When we are in Florida, we stay there. In Florida we have a swimming pool. In Bolivia there is a drought. People do not have water. The lakes have dried. People are dying. The city only sends water to our house once a month for an hour. People line up behind water trucks that have imported water to buy enough for a five gallon bucket in La Paz. We have to purchase water from a company that has a well that has not yet dried up. They bring it to our house in a truck once a week. 

In Florida we swim. In Bolivia we do not flush the toilets until someone goes number two. 

In Florida it is green and landscaped. In Bolivia it is brown and wild. 

In the States, I am a church member who faithfully attends and supports the staff. In Bolivia I am the pastor of the church. 

In Florida, no one knows who I am. In Bolivia I am well known. 

In the States, almost everyone that I know is wealthier and makes more money than I do. In Bolivia people think that I am super rich because I have a washing machine, a refrigerator and two cars (1991 Toyota and 2001 Toyota). 

In the States, I am an average pastor, average speaker, with an average education. In Bolivia I am more highly educated than anyone other than medical doctors., and I am considered an incredible speaker. 

In the States, I am the ethnic majority. In Bolivia I am such a minority that people stare when we go places. 

The children have the same issues. They belong but do not belong to either culture. They are Bolivians. They are not Bolivians. They are Americans. They are not Americans. It is confusing at times. This is because we all want to belong to a group. 

Which group am I in?
Am I in the wealthy class or the lower middle class?
Am I in the ethnic majority or minority?
Am I considered highly educated or not?
Am I an influencer or invisible?

Our children have the same problems. Imagine asking a homeschool kid who was born in Virginia, lives in Bolivia and has a home in Florida..."Where are you from and what grade are you in?" In Florida, we were at Walt Disney World and one of my daughters was called up out of the audience to participate. The cast member started off with the same question that they ask everyone. "What is your name and where are you from?" After saying her name...she went silent. He asked her again where she was from. She looked at us for the answer. She is a teenager! How can the question where are you from be so difficult? 

In the Staes, no one can imagine what our lives in Bolivia are like, Actually, no one is even that interested to hear about it. In Bolivia, no one can imagine what our lives in the States are like, and to be honest, we have never even been asked about it. 

In the States, I am a conservative Republican. In Bolivia, I cannot talk or write about anything political, nor can I be a member of a political party. 

In the States, we can talk for hours and hours about every conceivable subject. I have a PHD level vocabulary. In Bolivia, we have the equivalent of a junior high school vocabulary.

This has presented an identity crisis to us and to our children. We always say that we should find our identity in Christ alone. The truth is, we all belong to other groups that help us identify ourselves. We don't. Our identity group in the States is not the same as our identity group in Bolivia. 

This is a struggle, but it has resulted in something awesome. Our family has found their identity in two things. We are Christians. We are Holmans. That is pretty much the extent of the labeling we not only use, but see. For example, Mercy was trying to tell us about a friend that she had made. She described her clothes. She described her actions and age. She said that her mom was pretty and her dad was really tall. It wasn't until we met them that we discovered that they were African Americans. It never entered into Mercy's mind to use their skin color to describe them. My daughter Hope asked me the other day if we were Republicans or Democrats or Neither. She did not know what political label to put on us. We do not put people into categories so we know who to hate. We don't see Calvinist or Arminians. We don't see Republican or Democrat. We don't see rich or poor. We don't see liberal or conservative. We don't see Socialist or Capitalist. We don't see the labels that much of the world uses to classify and categorize others. That is because we don't fit any labels other than Christian and Holman. The labels put on us in the States do not apply in Bolivia and vice/versa. Whenever our kids point out something that other families do/do not do, we simply say, "We are the Holmans, and this is what we do." There is no judgment on culture. There is no harshness of attitude. We Holmans are a strange lot and this is what we do. 

We see the world as two groups. There are people who need to know and love Jesus. There are people that do know and love Jesus. What else really maters? 

Life is so much greater than our presuppositions and opinions. Being bi-cultural has opened our eyes up to so much. Yes, it is at times a definite struggle. However, the blessings that come from it are so great. I now understand what I was told 12 years ago by more missionaries. I asked them if they had any regrets taking their children to the mission field. EVERY missionary that I asked said it was the best parenting decision that they had ever made.

Leia Mais…

Sunday, January 8, 2017

Living On Purpose



Living On Purpose

The first Sunday of the year, I preached a message at my church with this title. The point of the message was that not only was ‘life’ not an accident, but ‘my life’ is not an accident.

If my life is not an accident, if I was created by God, then shouldn’t I at least consider the question ‘why’?

Why am I here?
What am I doing?
Where am I going?
How will I get there?

Is your life accidental or intentional?


I kept asking questions over and over. For example:

How much PLANNING did you put into your career? Is this what you planned to be doing and how you planned to be doing it?

How much PLANNING did you put into your marriage (not wedding, marriage)? Is your relationship what you envisioned it to be? If not, what happened?

How much PLANNING did you put into your parenting? Do you intentionally raise your children with a desired set of goals that you are trying to reach, or just keeping them out of trouble?

How much PLANNING did you put into your finances? Have you been intentionally controlling your spending and your earning in order to reach a certain financial goal? Or do you just make ends meet?

How much PLANNING did you put into your friendships? Does your relationship with them have a purpose that brings lasting benefits and values to each other, or do you just chit chat?

How much PLANNING did you put into your church ministry? Do you even have one? If not, why? If you do, then how much effort is put into it that will make it grow to a goal that you have established?

How much of your life is intentional, and how much of your life is accidental?

How much of your life is proactive and how much of it is reactive?


The thing that I did not expect was the reaction to the message. I always get the typical “good message” comments. Those are just nice manners. On this message, I was told by three different people how convicted that they were. One person said that they had never thought about it. Another one said that they had no plans about anything and needed to change that.

I have discovered that it is normal for us to be life pinballs. We just bounce around off of things and end up where we are and don’t know how we got there.

Jesus illustrated a life of purpose for us. I think you can sum it up in John 12:27.

“What shall I say, ‘Father save me from this hour?’ For this purpose I have come to this hour.”

He knew that His life had a goal and He was going to accomplish it.

I believe that the same thing can apply to us. There is an old saying that says, “If you aim at nothing, then you will hit it every time.” What is the aim of your life?

2 Corinthians 5:9 says that we make it our goal to please Him. In all that we do, our desire, the purpose of what we are doing, is to bring pleasure to the Lord. Can you imagine the difference your life would bring if you truly made it your goal in this thought, action, or word to please Him?

I have two guiding verses to my life and ministry. These are two verses that God has brought alive in my heart and that I am passionate about.

The first one is in Haggai chapter 1. It is actually quoted twice, once in verse 5 the other in verse 7. It says, “Now this is what the Lord God Almighty says, ‘Give careful thought to your ways.’” God tells us to think about what we are doing. I love the passage in Isaiah 44, where the prophet is describing the error and sin of idolatry and he sums it up by saying, “No one stops to think….” (v19).

Have you stopped to think?
Are you giving careful thought to your ways?
How much thought goes into your marriage?
How much thought goes into your relationships?
Free time?
Parenting?
Finances?
Spiritual Life?
“Now this is what the Lord God Almighty Says, ‘Give careful thought to your ways.’”

The next life verse is 1 Timothy 1:5. “The goal of our instruction is love, which comes from a pure heart, a clean conscience and a sincere faith.”

The purpose of Biblical teaching is not more knowledge or deeper understanding. It is love. Am I helping people to grow in their ability and capacity to love God and others?

I have put together a life mission statement that guides all that I do. I highly recommend that you do so as well.

Here is mine:

“My purpose is to help people know God better and love Him more.”

Everything that I do is with that in mind. From an atheist to the greatest theologian of all time…everyone can know God better than they do right now. Love is eternal and infinite. We can alway love God more. I want to influence people towards a theology that results in love.

I expand on this mission statement a little with this:

“I will accomplish this by pursuing and ever increasing love relationship and knowledge of God, then teach others by word and example what I have learned and applied.”

I want to lead others to Christ, not point them. I want to be the man that I desire my children to become. I want to grow each day in my knowledge and my love of God, and then through words and examples help my wife, children, church and friends grow a little as well.

What do you want to do with your life?
How will you do that?

It is time to start living intentionally not accidentally.

If you want to hear the message that I preached, it is on Bolivianjoe on Itunes. A direct link is:

http://traffic.libsyn.com/bolivianjoe/Life_On_Purpose.m4a

Leia Mais…

Friday, February 19, 2016

IMHO You Should Stop Saying IMHO!



I have to share with you MHO about something. What I want to do is to share MHO about when people use MHO or IMHO before they say or post something. 

Stop it!

Unless you are actually stating your opinion, stop it!
Unless your opinion is informed, stop it!

Here is a pet peeve of mine. It is a two-fold thing that my wife and I see and talk about almost every day. It is mainly on social media, but also in actual news reporting. 

1.  We think that saying MHO or IMHO excuses whatever we say afterwards.

2.  We say MHO or IMHO and then what comes afterwards is NOT our opinion. 

Before expanding on these two things, let me give an illustration and then explain my goal. When I was in graduate school, sometimes my professors would ask us our position on something, and then offer us extra credit if we would write a research paper defending the opposite view. This made us thoroughly research and understand the other viewpoint. It did not make us agree with it, although I must admit that in some occasions my mind has been changed…I believe that is called education and growth. What it did accomplish was to help us really understand and know why we disagreed. This practice let us evaluate the strengths and weaknesses of both our position and that of the other. 

Because of this practice, we were able articulate the opinions and believes of both sides. We were able to defend the point of views of both sides. In conclusion, since we truly knew what was being discussed or challenged, we were able to come to our own conclusions, opinions or beliefs about the subject. 

This is a far cry from what I see happening in our new IMHO culture. What I have experienced is that we have our favorite news commentaries (not news sources—another blog on that may be in the future). We listen to what ‘our people’ say, we read what ‘our people’ write, and we watch what ‘our people’ record. Then, we start trending the opinions of others as if they were our own. 

A great example happening right now is the ‘immigration crisis’ of our country. Take that phrase and look at it. It is a loaded term. It calls us to arms. It is a ‘crisis’. A ‘crisis’ is a bad thing. A ‘crisis’ must be dealt with and eradicated. From the very start, it is hard to have an honest conversation when the person that you are talking to is in crisis-fear-factor mode. 

Let us back off of the terminology for a moment and ask ourselves if we truly understand the immigration laws, policies and procedures of our country. 

Have we researched the facts? 

Do we know what it means to come to the States legally from South America in both time and money? 

Do we know where both sides have come up with their numbers when they talk about undocumented workers? 

How did the costs of these illegal immigrants get calculated? 

Who did the calculations? 

Is it a trustworthy source? 

Were the conclusions truly the result of the facts? Did the conclusion flow from the facts or was it a predetermined conclusion and facts/examples were sought out to reinforce it? 

For example, if the Grand Master of the KKK wrote an article on the ‘Black Lives Matter’ movement, would you automatically assume that everything has been presented in a factual and honest manner, or would you perhaps assume that there is a particular bias in the reporting?

If a liberal news commentary presented a story on immigration would you assume that the story was factually and accurately presented or would you assume that some facts were intentionally left out in order to bring the listener/viewer/reader to a predetermined conclusion?

If a conservative news commentary presented a story on immigration would you assume that the story was factually and accurately presented or would you assume that some facts were intentionally left out in order to bring the listener/viewer/reader to a predetermined conclusion?

What if, instead of just believing whichever ‘news’ channel we followed and then pursuing a confirmation bias type of information gathering, we actually went deeper into the topic and sought to understand and articulate all of the points of view without disdain? 

What if, we were able to REALLY say, “IMHO” before we said something?

Let me go back to my two points earlier.

1. We think that saying MHO or IMHO excuses whatever we say afterwards.  

You and I have both seen this myriads of times. We immediately recognize it when ‘they’ do this, but ignore it when ‘we’ do it. I can say, “IMHO racism does not exist” and then move on, in spite of the overwhelming amount of evidence that disproves what I just said and makes it not an opinion but a stupid thing to say. If I say, “IMO the immigration crisis is the result of Obama trying to turn the USA into a Socialist Country that worships Allah” then the subject is closed. I don’t need any proof. I don’t need to justify my opinion. I don’t need to show how I came to my conclusion. Not only that, but if you challenge my opinion, you are being judgmental and harsh because I am allowed to believe what I want to believe and you should accept me for it.

Please listen to this. Saying IMHO does not negate science. It does not change facts. It does not alter reality. I can say, “IMHO, people should eat with their anuses and poop out of their mouths. I believe that doing the reverse is the result of a liberal conspiracy.” That doesn’t change a thing about our digestive system or how it functions.  “IMHO, gravity does not exist“. Well, your opinion is not what is keeping you from floating into the nothingness of space, gravity is doing that. “IMHO, women do not face a glass ceiling in the market place.” That would be wonderful if it were true, but a look at the statistics show that it is not.

Please, do not state things that do not line up with reality and think that saying it is your opinion changes anything. Saying that it is your opinion does not excuse you from actually knowing something about what you are talking about. Do not let your ‘opinion’ reveal you to be a moron. 

Lets look at the second thing that is flooding social media.

2. We say MHO or IMHO and then what comes afterwards is NOT our opinion.  


What I mean by this is that usually it is not our opinion, it is  the opinion of someone else that has been given to us. We have not done any type of fact checking, soul-searching, or data mining. We hear what our channel and our sub-culture says and then start parroting that as if it were our opinion. 

An informed opinion is a belief that is stronger than impression based on the possession of information. In other words, this is something that I actually believe and that I came to this belief by investigation. 

For example, I can say, “In my opinion, the Denver Broncos are the worst football team in the history of the NFL.”  This is an opinion. I can hate the Broncos. This is my belief, it is my opinion. The Denver Broncos are the worst team in history. Another person states the opposite opinion, they believe that the Denver Broncos are the best team in NFL history. They truly believe this to be the case.

Are both opinions equally valid? Yes they are. Both of these are personal judgments and beliefs held by the individual.

Are both opinions ‘informed opinions’? This takes it to another level.

The Bronco Hater is adamant in his opinion and derision of the Broncos. When he is pressed for information as to how he came to this opinion, you discover that he has never even seen an NFL football game. You then find out that he does not know the rules of football. As you continue the dialogue you discover two things. First, he hates the color orange and therefore hates the Broncos. The second thing is that he belongs and wants to belong to a peer group at work and they hate the Broncos. 

What do you now think of his opinion? It is still ‘an’ opinion. However in reality it is not actually ‘his’ and it is definitely not an informed one.

Now, you begin the same dialogue with the Bronco Lover. You discover that he has followed the Broncos for 25 years and has been a season ticket holder for 10. He then points out to you that they are the 2016 Super Bowl Champions, and that they have the best record in NFL history of wins/losses, with 504 wins, 366 losses and 14 ties giving them a win percentage of .580 which is tied for overall percentage with the Cowboys. He then pointed out that the Broncos have the records for most touchdowns, most players with 10 or more touchdowns, most passing first downs, and most games with 50 or more points. As you continue the discussion, he shares with you the individual stats of various players and the fact that the Broncos have been to the Super Bowl eight times and have won three of them.

What do you now think of his opinion? Which of the two opinions is an informed one? Which opinion has more credibility?

Why is it that we can easily see this in our football illustration, but we can not discern it in politics or current issues?

I can say, “IMO the refugees are nothing more than terrorists seeking to sneak into the country and kill our children. They come to the country without a background check of any kind and the majority of them are young males.”  This is an opinion. It is an opinion that is shared by many people, and one that some candidates for the presidency are capitalizing on. I would go so far as to say that you, my reader, have heard this and that many of you agree with it.

Is it an informed opinion? Are there any actual facts that substantiate this opinion? Can you give real life examples and data? Where did you get your information and how objective or unbiased was your source? 

When this was trending on Facebook, I decided to do something. I asked people for their sources for their statements and opinions.When they would make a claim such as 'the majority of refugees are young, Islamic males', I would ask them how they knew that to be true.  99% of people either had no source they could point to, or simply pointed to their one News Commentating Channel. In other words, the group that I want to belong to said this and since they said it I now say it. 

That may be an opinion. However it is not truly ‘your’ opinion and if so it is not an informed opinion. If you cannot state the sources for your information, or even give any data that led to your conclusion, it is not a conclusion nor is it an opinion. It is just a re-statement of someone else's re-statment of someone else's statement. 

Let me ask you something. This is targeting people that post and re-post points of view on various current topics such as, but not limited to: climate change, refugees, immigration, securing borders, welfare, military, gun laws, Supreme Court Justices, and political candidates.

Have you, personally, yourself, actually researched what you are saying that you agree with? 

Have you looked at the opposing viewpoints to see if they have any validity, or maybe some good topics of discussion or thought? 

Have you looked beyond your confirmation bias and read well written and documented articles that come to a different conclusion than what you hold?

Have you actually formulated an informed opinion on the subject, so much so that you can articulate how your opinion was a conclusion from your research and not your research was the conclusion of your opinion?

If not, then stop it.

IMHO or MHO does not make your next statement accurate or intelligent. It does not change facts. It does not prove a point. It is not entering into the public forum or contributing to discussing or solving problems. It is simply letting people know that you love MSNBC or FOX, and that you hate whoever and whatever they hate.

IMHO people who use that phrase without actually holding a personally formulated opinion based on research and thought out to STOP IT. 


Leia Mais…

Sunday, October 12, 2014

What Is Your Label?


What Does The Label Say?

I have discovered something since moving to the mission field.  It is really quiet profound. It was something that I did, that my culture (most of your readers) does, and that I have started the process of not doing.

It is labeling. We love to label because it frees us from loving the person.  Let me give you an example.

I spoke to a group at a conference in the States a few years ago.  It was not a mission conference but I was asked to speak on mission work and specifically our mission.  Then came the Q & A time.  Here are the first two questions that I was asked.  Now remember, the topic was on missions in the world and the illustrations and stories were from our own missionary life. This are not direct quotes but here are the questions.

Question 1:  Are you a Calvinist?

Question 2: Are you a charismatic?

What do either of those questions have to do with missions in the world?  
What do they have to do with taking Christ to the lost?  Nada. Zilch. Nothing.  
They are simply labeling questions.

I was facing a dilemma and I knew it.  If I said that I was a Calvinist, then the label was attached to my head and all of the non-Calvinist could ignore everything that I had just said…and vice/versa.  If I said that I was a charismatic, then all of the mainline denomination folks could now ignore my call to go to the mission field…they could label me and therefore my message as a little whacko.  If I was not a charismatic, then all of the charismatic people could label me as not Spirit-filled, therefore my message to go and make disciples was not Spirit-led.

The label game was on!

In the States, we label everyone and everything.  We don’t just insist on putting labels on our food or warning labels (signs) on everything that could possibly affect us.  We label each other.  We start with race, but deny our racism.  We don’t see people, we see the color of people. Then, we make assumptions based on that color.  We put labels on everyone that we see. If you are walking down an alley in NY and a middle aged white man is walking toward you…what do you do?  Is it the same reaction that you would have if it were a 25 year old African American? Or an 18 year old Latino? 

We also want political labels.  Are you a Republican? Tea Party? Green Party? Libertarian? Democrat? Constitution Party?  You see, as soon as I can label you a member of the opposing party, or of a different party, then I know how to treat you.  Tell a staunch Republican that you are a hardline Democrat and see how much love is in the room…even if they both wear the label of Christian.  

We look at appearances and put socio-economical labels on people.  Do you shop at Macy’s or Wal-Mart? How old and what type of car do you have? Where do you live? Is that a real leather purse? We even do this in the church.  Here is an insightful question: How many ‘poor’ elders serve on the elder board of your church?  Why is that? Could it be that we think our socio-economic label carries spiritual weight? 

In the illustration above when I was at the conference, I showed how we LOVE our theological labels in the evangelical church. (see, I just used a label, ‘evangelical’. :) ).  Are you young earth or old earth? We all know that young earth creationist believe the Bible and old earth people…well, who knows?  Are you a dispensationalist or a covenant person? As soon as I know, then we can decide on fellowship or not.  Do you speak in tongues? What do you think about women in leadership? Do you follow the Law?  I need to know your label in order to know what to do with you.

Here is the handy thing about a label. A label tells me what to expect and lets me choose what to do.  Think about your pantry full of cans with no labels.  You have no idea what is in the can.  How can you cook?  Now envision the same pantry with all the cans labeled.  Ah…now that you can see the labels you know what to do.  

We do that with people.  A label tells me who is my friend, who I can be with, and who I can hate.  I don’t admit it.  I will deny it.  However, how many people do you choose to place in your life who wear a different label than you?  I said, ‘choose’ to place in your life.  We are forced to work with those weirdos and all of us have them (family) in our lives, but how many different labels do you ‘choose’ to include?  What do you do with the ones who don’t have your label?  We hate them, ignore them, or just think that we are better than them. 

Labels let us ignore the Bible verses on loving others. 

Labels justify our disdain.  

You see, the difference between the pantry illustration and people is that people are all the same…they are eternal souls needing to know and love their Creator.  The label keeps us from seeing the soul and allows us to disdain the person.

Labels are everywhere.

I said that I am learning to change this. I think maybe it is because of necessity. I know that in Bolivia the Bolivians label each other by race, gender, education, and socio-economics.  However, when I came I saw them all as Bolivians.  One big label that covered everyone. I did away with my myriad of sub-labels.  It was wonderful.  Now, my label has even changed to be one of more precise—Christians or people who need to know Christ?  When I go to the jungle, I don’t see this tribe or that tribe…I see people who need Jesus.  At my church, I don’t know what group this person belongs to or that person aligns with…I see people who need to know God better.  It is such a great thing.

My missionary friends have also had a label reduction placed upon them. When I was in the States I was in the micro label community.  A church had to not only agree with us on the essentials of the faith, they had to agree with us on everything.  You can believe in salvation by grace through faith alone….but if you thought it was okay to drink alcohol we had a problem.  However, on the mission field there are a small group of us trying to reach people for Jesus.  You may want to baptize them a different way than I do after they are saved, what matters most…that they are saved or that I believe in dunking them?  On the mission field the label doesn’t matter.  I actually have a friend who I have served with for over 7 years here and just recently found out his denomination.  The name on the label of his jacket doesn’t matter if he is rolling up the sleeves of it and working with me to help people know Jesus.

Labeling.  Wouldn’t it be great if we could try to live without it?  What if there were only two types of people in our eyes…those that know Jesus already and those that we can help to know Him?  What if we were willing to take all the micro labels off and honestly just keep the ones that really, truly, matter.  I have found that the older I get, actually I believe the more mature that I become, the more Jesus matters and the less the other stuff does.


How about you?

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Wednesday, October 8, 2014

More Good Stuff About Being A Missionary

More Good Stuff About Being A Missionary



My last blog was “10 Things Your Missionary Won’t Tell You.”  It received more comments, private emails, and Facebook shares than any blog that I have ever written.  99% of those comments were in agreement to what was said. I am following that blog up with some brain dump good stuff items.  Here is part 2.



Expanded Worldview
We may not realize it, but you have been programed to think a certain way about almost everything.  This indoctrination has happened over your life and is what makes us creatures of our culture.  It is your worldview…how you see and interpret the world.  So much of what we think and perceive is from our culture.  This is true even when it comes to studying the Bible.  We do not remove our cultural lenses when it comes time to read God’s Word.  One thing that has happened to us since leaving for the mission field is that we have had an opportunity to look at things differently. We live in a culture that does not see things the way that we have always seen them.  That has challenged our thinking.  The way that we do things does not always mean that it is the only way, or the right way.  We get to evaluate things.  I believe that living in a different culture actually helps us understand life, our own culture, and the Bible better. 




Molehills Do Not Become Mountains.
There is a tendency in the States to define ourselves and then narrow our definition even more until we reach a point where only those who agree with us in every area can be friends…maybe they are not even christians. :)  Charismatics do not associate with Baptists. Baptist choose their specific group to hang with…such as Freewill, Sovereign, North, South, etc. and pretty much do nothing with anyone else.  And don’t get me going on the Presbyterians. :)

We have gone from the foundational doctrines being what we build upon to using all of the little doctrines to destroy each other.  Every molehill is a mountain.

However, on the field we are foxhole buddies.  We are in this together.  What matters is Jesus.  We focus on the essentials of the orthodox faith and do not choke to death on what you believe about the end times.  It is great.  We can be friends, good friends, with people who disagree with us on the minor doctrines.  I have friends who are pentecostal, others are ‘really’ charismatic :), then I have my über Calvinist and my evangelical Methodist.  There are the conservative Baptist who never say nothing about my wife wearing pants, and the non-denominational that love being at my parties. The molehills are easy to step over when you are climbing a mountain together.  




Helping The Poor
You know that you should help the poor.  You really do know that.  The only problem is, that most of us that live in the States have had two things happen to us.  The first is that we don’t really know anyone who is poor.  The second is that our culture (see the worldview section) has convinced us that helping the poor is hurting the poor.  When I was a pastor in the States, I had two Bible verses that formed the entirety of my theology of the poor.  The first was, “the poor you have with you always’ and the second was “If a man doesn’t work, then he doesn’t eat.”.  That was it.  

Things are different here in the poorest country in all the Americas.  The poor are not some enemy of culture or lazy people trying to live off of the government, both of whom are nameless straw men designed to make us feel good for not helping them.  Nope, the poor are real people. They have real stories. They have names. They have families. They are alive.  99% of them are hardworking and trying the best that they can.  To be honest, they are you, my dear reader, if you had been born here instead of there.  

I get to help the poor. It is so satisfying.  I have been able to feed people that had no food, to clothe people that had no clothes, to pay for surgeries that saved lives, to buy medicine for those who couldn’t, and to give dental treatment for the first time ever to others.  I have had the joy of building 12 homes and two churches for the poor and for poor communities.  It is wonderful.  I love helping the poor in Jesus’ name.





Cool Experiences With My Family
This is way up there on the awesome list.  I mentioned in my blog that missionaries won’t tell you that many times we feel like our children suffer because they don’t get to do all the neat things that your kids do.  However, the flip side of that coin is that they do get to do some fun things.  They have camped in the Amazon forest while serving a poor community and building a church. They have canoed down Amazon rivers and had monkeys jump on their shoulders (one had a monkey pee on him, how cool is that?).  They have climbed a mountain that is 17,000 feet high and driven motorcycles through the city.  They have built homes for the poor and pulled teeth with dentist.  We have had so many wonderful and neat experiences together.  I love being able to do these things with the fam.



Speaking Another Language
There is a joke that goes around in other countries. I have heard it in three different ones.  Here it is:  What do you call someone who speaks three languages?  Trilingual. What do you call someone who speaks two language?  Bilingual. What do you call someone who speaks one language?  An American.
That is funny because it is true.  I have to say, I love speaking Spanish.  I am a lifelong student now and know that I will never be GREAT.  My accent is poor because I did not start learning until I was almost 45, but I am fluent.  Being able to talk in another language is just cool.  It makes me feel smart, and I need all the help that I can get in that area.  :)


Still more good stuff in my next blog.

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Friday, October 3, 2014

Good Stuff About Being A Missionary


Good Stuff About Being A Missionary


My last blog was “10 Things Your Missionary Won’t Tell You.”  It received more comments, private emails, and Facebook shares than any blog that I have ever written.  99% of those comments were in agreement to what was said.

However, to be fair, I want to follow up that post with some good stuff.  I love being a missionary!   The following list is not a Bible Study, it is a personal experience of life after being on the mission field for almost 8 years.

Disclaimer:  This list is not in any order whatsoever…just a brain dump written down while sitting up in bed one night.  

Disclaimer 2:  This is sharing my experiences and how I feel.  It is not a judgement nor an indictment about living in the States.  It is just what I like about living here.





Friends
One thing that I discovered after coming to the mission field is that before coming I really did not have that many friends.  I knew a lot of people.  I had a lot of acquaintances.  However I really did not have the ‘call me anytime, no out of bounds, I am here for you, it is not a sacrifice to help you, I want to know you better’ type of friends.  On the field, among other missionaries, there is more of a foxhole mentality.  We are here together.  We are serving the same Lord. For the first time in my life, I have really experienced the ‘one-another’ type of relationship that you see listed in the Scripture.  I said that I am not putting this list in any order, but when I asked my wife beside me to give me a list of what she enjoyed about being a missionary, this was the first one on her list.  It is a big deal to have really great friends who love you and Jesus and show it to you.





Impacting Lives
I have been in ‘vocational ministry’ since 1988.  It has been a blast.  I have loved serving as a pastor in the States and have been the Sr. Pastor of two GREAT churches there.  However, it was not until I came to the field that I truly felt like I started impacting lives on a real scale.  Don’t get me wrong, I had a good ministry in the States.  I loved teaching the Bible. I had the joy of seeing hundreds of people give their lives to Christ.  Yet something is different here.  The best way that I can illustrate it is like this.

Suppose that God called me and gave me 5,000 bottles of water.  He said that I could pass this water out to anyone that wanted it.  I could choose where, when and how to give them out.  Once they were all passed out, my job here was done.  I picture two scenarios in my mind.  The first one is setting up a tent at the local reservoir and water supply in the burbs.  People come to the lake to have family picnics, to fish, and to water ski.  They all have a great time and no one is doing anything wrong.  People see my tent, and stroll by to get a bottle of water to help take the bite off of the fun in the sun day that they are having.  They are appreciative and grateful for my water because it saved them a trip to the local store to buy some.

A second scenario would be for me to load up my water in the back of my four wheel drive jeep and then start scouring the desert looking for people dying of thirst.  It is more work, and takes a lot more energy and effort.  The up side is that every person that I give my water to is more than appreciative.  They are alive.  The water bottle was the difference between life and death.  

That is how I feel. I believe that God has given me a certain gift mix.  He has given me a few talents.  He has also given me some time.  I feel like what I am doing here is making an impact in the lives of people.  I am doing more than helping fellow Christians learn a little more doctrine (although I am still doing that as a pastor and Bible teacher).  I am being used by God to reach souls for eternity and save lives for now.  






Focusing On What Matters
Living on the mission field, especially when you live among the poor, has a way of allowing me to truly prioritize my life.  I cannot speak for anyone else other than me, but in my life I had allowed materialism, consumerism, greed, coveting and a desire to please others creep in unawares.  There really is no other way to explain why I was living such a luxurious lifestyle in the States.  I had adapted to the culture of ‘bigger, better, faster and more’.  Life was about success.  After coming to Bolivia and having the joy of being in a different culture, of being with the poor, of seeing life apart from comfort and consumerism, I began to realize what was really important.  I was able to leave some bad habits and then even repent of hidden sins and allow God to change me.  Life is not about what you think of me, or how much money I have, or the level of comfort that I can attain.  Life is about Jesus.  It is about helping people know God better and love Him more.  It is about sacrificing my rights in order to help others.  People matter to God.  I need to focus on people.  Living on the mission field keeps that priority in line.  What is eternal?  The Word of God and the souls of men.  That is our focus.  




Living On My Strengths
Okay, the next three things are way up on my favorite list. When I say living on my strengths what I mean is that being on the mission field allows me to do what I do best.  I am not a ‘cog’ in some machine simply doing a job description that has been handed down to me.  I am able to choose what I do and maximize my return by doing what I am good at and by limiting my time and energy in areas that I am not very strong.  For example, I am a pretty decent communicator and Bible teacher.  I am also a people person and love to evangelize, disciple, teach, and mentor.  I can focus on that.  I can do that.  I do not have to attend a myriad of meetings in order to keep the bureaucracy or organization going.  I can teach.  I have taught in a Christian school here, helping 9th-12th graders learn the Bible.  I have taught in seminary.  I have taught in a mentoring school for pastors and church leaders.  I have taught leadership and church conferences, marriage and parenting retreats, and led Bible studies.  I am able to spend as much of my time doing this as I want to.  In other words, instead of spending 30% of my time investing in what I am good at and 70% doing what is necessary for the organization.  I am able to spend 70% of my time at what I am good at.  I love to evangelize and share the story of Christ.  I have opportunities every day do to that.  As I told one pastor who was here on a short term trip, “In seven years I have never had to go to a deacon meeting or discuss the color of carpet or meet with the painting committee.”  :)





Multi-tasking
This flows out of living on my strengths.  I am not GREAT at anything other than loving my wife (got some points out of that one), however I am capable in several areas.  As a missionary I am able to do more than one job description.  I teach leadership and one of the things that we talk about is leading or managing.  Neither one is more important than the other, they are just different.  A leader can see what needs to be done and how to do it.  A manager gets it done.  In my gift mix, I am better at leading than managing.  I tell my wife that I am really good at the 80 meter dash….too bad that the finish line is up there at 100 meters.  However, if I can leave the dash and join a relay…if I can have someone to hand the baton off to, then I can go to another race and run another 80 meters with enthusiasm.  Living on the mission field allows me to do that.  I am able to help start ministries, to encourage missionaries, to invest in healthy networks and relationships.  I have been able to preach the gospel to an Amazon tribe who had never had a missionary visit them before, help orphans and orphanages, build churches, start small businesses, feed the poor, provide surgeries for people, help dentist and doctors serve the impoverished, evangelize one-on-one and preach to large groups.  I love doing a project or an event, and then doing something else.  It helps me maximize my 80m dash.  






Being With My Family
While I was a pastor in the States, I had a work week of 53 hours. That was my schedule.  That did not include any power lunches or driving time.  Now, as a missionary, I work on average 48 hours a week.  However, the cool part is that I am never more than a couple of miles from my home.  I have an office, and I also have an office at home.  This allows me to be with my peeps a lot.  I mean a lot.  Bolivian culture does not do ‘power lunches’ like we do in the States.  They just eat lunch and take care of business later.  What this means to me is that everyday I eat lunch with my family and/or my wife.  Since I am able to live on my strengths and avoid too many after work meetings, I am able to eat with my wife and/or my family every night.  Last year, I took David and Josh with me to the office everyday and they did their school at a desk next to mine.  If I need to run to the hospital or drive to someone’s house to help them in some way, I take some kids with me.  When short term teams come and we build churches and houses, my kids work alongside of me.  We went to the jungle for a week and the family went with us.  Everyone from Mercy to Caleb (Seth and Jacob were in the States) lived in a tent in an Amazon tribal village and helped minister and build everyday.  I love my family.  They are my favorite. I get to be with the people that I love doing the things that I love.  





Walking By Faith
I have taught for my entire ministry the importance of living by and walking by faith.  However, the truth is that I never really understood what it meant.  When you serve and live in a place where your next paycheck is always guaranteed, necessity is a word that you hear but do not personally know, and that focuses on improving comfort; it is hard to walk by faith.  I do not mean that walking by faith is focused on money.  What I mean (and am currently teaching at my church) is that walking by faith is hearing what God has to say through His Spirit and Word and then doing it.  It is believing that God can and will use you.  A wonderful example to me was Mary. When she heard that she was going to give birth to Jesus and was shown Scripture as a proof, her response was, “Okay.”.  She simply believed that if God was going to use someone, then it might as well be her as the next person.  Walking by faith is really believing that God wants to use your life as a blessing, hearing what He wants to do, and then acting on it.  That, for me, was much more difficult to do in the States.  It was hard to hear God speak to me in the middle of so much other noise.  On the mission field when life is scaled down so to speak, the voice of the Holy Spirit has been much easier for me to listen to.  This goes with an earlier point about focusing on what matters, but now I can see more clearly that God’s purpose in my life is not to give me comfort and possession.  His goal is to receive glory from me as by faith I obey Him.  






Seeing God Work
I love not only walking by faith, but actually experiencing God at work.  A long time ago there was a study that became kinda famous.  It was called “Experiencing God”.  The idea of the study was that God is at work around us.  We need simply keep our eyes open to what He is doing and then join Him in His work.  Living on the field allows us to do that.  We have networked with a lot of other missionaries.  They are serving Christ and doing an incredible job.  We are able to see God working and then say, “Hey, lets be a part of that!”.  For example, my friend Tony is a mission pilot with a heart for reaching jungle tribes.  He shared his renewed vision with me of starting 10 churches in 10 villages in 10 years.  As I heard him speaking, I could sense that this was of God.  So, I joined God and Tony.  I have volunteered to do any pastoral training necessary and to build any churches when they are ready to be constructed.  We have built one church and will be doing a village church leader conference later this month.  God is working and I see it.  I love that.  I can look at my co-laborers in Christ, at my own ministry, and at the work of my Bolivian friends and see that God is working here.  


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